How to make a birthday wishlist
"What would you like for your birthday?" is a question most of us struggle to answer on the spot. A birthday wishlist answers it once, for everyone.
Why make a birthday wishlist
Friends and family want to give you something you'll love, and a list takes the guessing out of it. You get presents you'll actually use, and they save hours of searching.
It also makes group presents easy: when several friends want to give you one bigger thing, they can see it on your list and agree on it.
What to add
- Things you've had your eye on for a while, with a link to the exact model.
- A few small wishes for people who want to bring something little.
- Experiences: a dinner at a restaurant you've wanted to try, a spa day, a climbing session.
- Hobby gear: a new lens, running shoes, art supplies, a plant for your collection.
- A money fund for something bigger, like a bike, a laptop or a trip.
- A charity wish, if you'd rather have a donation than another thing.
A birthday list for children
Children's parties often mean ten families each buying a present. A shared list helps everyone choose something the child will enjoy and keeps two identical toys out of the pile.
Add the age, sizes and a price range per wish, and include a few cheaper items so every family finds something that fits their budget. Share the list with the party invitation.
When and how to share it
Send the link two to three weeks before your birthday. Add the date to the list so gift-givers see a countdown, and Wishetta reminds you a week ahead if you haven't shared it yet.
Gift-givers can also ask to be reminded: they leave their e-mail on your list and get a note a week before the date.
Keep one list for every year
You don't have to start from scratch every year. Keep your birthday list, mark what you received, remove what you no longer want and add new wishes. The list grows with you.
Frequently asked questions
Isn't it rude to send a birthday wishlist?
Not when people ask what you want, and most do. Sharing a list is simply an easier answer. Many people send it only to those who ask.
How many wishes should a birthday list have?
Ten to twenty works well. Include a range of prices so everyone finds something, and more wishes than you expect to get.
Can friends chip in on one bigger present?
Yes. Add the present as a money fund with a target amount. Friends pledge what they want to give and send the money to you directly.
Can I make a birthday list for my child?
Yes. Create a list in your account for each child and share its link with other parents or relatives.